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Moving can be a stressful time on a family, and expecially on kids – no matter what the age. Use these helpful relocation tips to help your children make the transition.
- Get the local newspaper so that you and your children can start to familiarize yourselves with your new neighborhood and community.
- Discuss the move with your children, let them ask questions.
- Let them participate in the move, and in decisions, as appropriate to their age and ability.
- Have them make a list of the names, addresses, email addresses and telephone numbers of their friends. This will help them know that they can stay in touch, even after the move.
- If you can, take your children with you on your new home search, and to the new community. Explore the area together so that they become familiar with the new neighborhood.
- Visit your children’s new school, and take your children along too. Ask about extracurricular activities, including sports and clubs.
- Visit your new church or synagogue. Ask to be connected with a “sponsor”, and ask about joining groups.
- Try to arrange for activities for your kids – groups, sports, music lessons, etc.
- Walk around your new neighborhood and try to meet your neighbors, and find out about others in the area.
- Contact the “Welcome Wagon” in your new community. Ask if there is a “Newcomer’s Club”.
- Have your children pack a box with their favorite things to take along with them on the move.
- Remember – familiarity with people and surroundings will help your children adjust.
- Have patience with your kids.
- Try to maintain a normal routine, as much as possible.
- Watch for warning signs that your child is having difficulty with the move.
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